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Husbands and wives are puzzled, hurt, and frustrated because their spouse either refuses sex or will have sex only on rare occasions. If you have worked hard to be understanding, kind, clean, attractive, affectionate, patient, an initiator, etc. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer.

The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it. Despite this clear biblical teaching, many Christian wives and husbands avoid or refuse sex. Because of selfishness. If we think something will be unpleasant, we tend to avoid it, even if avoiding that thing will cause someone else pain or unpleasantness. They seem like unpleasant tasks, so kids avoid chores even if that means that their parents will be upset or left to pick up the slack.

Likewise, sex can feel like an unpleasant chore, something to be avoided because it can bring up unresolved emotional or relationship issues, requires Housewives wants hot sex Burden, takes time and effort, involves nudity, has a performance component, etc.

So, spouses avoid sex even if that means their spouse will be upset or left to struggle with unmet physical intimacy needs. I would rather you suffer than me having to do the challenging work of overcoming:. This is a hard truth. You then have hard decisions to make. Your spouse wants all the advantages of marriage without the sexual responsibilities. However, your spouse may be refusing to work on sex because your spouse suspects that you would never separate over lack of sex. I highly recommend you see an individual counselor first if you are considering asking for a marital separation because you will need extra support and guidance as you navigate this challenging option.

Reading through the comments reveals the agony experienced in sexless marriages. I pray often for hurting husbands and wives who read this post, and will pray for you if you leave prayer requests in the comments.

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If you are the spouse who desperately wishes you could find a way to be interested in sex, please implement the bullet points above, and also enlist trusted prayer warriors to pray for you. You are worth the time, energy, and financial investment. This has been a difficult blog to write. I needed this article. I have been dealing with this for years and felt like I had no options.

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Thanks for the good information. Please pray for me. I never thought sex with my wife would be soooooo difficult. Especially when she was the aggressor before we were married. I am angry, tired, frustrated with the communication of my needs being ignored especially when I am going above and beyond to fulfill her needs which are communication and listening to her ups and downs and work successes and failures.

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I am always here for her fulfilling her needs she has communicated. For years I have cycled through breakdowns, begging for intimacy in our marriage, and then waiting, hopeful for change…only to be disappointed when nothing changed. We are now seeing a counsellor, but Housewives wants hot sex Burden if he is just wired to not want sex? Will he talk to a doctor at all?? I am 26, married, and my husband and I have not had sex for nearly three months now. I know this seems crazy but I promise its true. I was beginning to think I was weird or something but my Dr said its just my sex drive.

I was understanding. I was compassionate. But then we went from sex once a day to twice a week, to once a week, to once every other week and then once a month, to now not having it at all. We have been struggling with this since the end of our first year together when in a heated argument over pornography he shouted that he was not attracted to me anymore.

We saught counselling and our relationship got a little better for a while, however, it only lasted a short time. In February, I decided I could no longer live like this and gave him an ultimatum. He seemed scared at the time, but has since stopped caring if I meant what I said. For a short time I moved to the guest room, but after he promised things would change, I moved back to the bedroom.

He refused to the divorce papers, so at the suggestion of a co-worker, I created a tinder. My coworkers are shocked at the change this has made in my work and my attitude. Unfortunately, I know I will have to tell my husband. I am at a loss right now. The man that got me pregnant is black. I wish my husband would have just had sex with me.

I know what I did was wrong, but I honestly feel like he left me no choice. Thank you for this post. Good for you for getting into counseling! Yes, it is possible for men to have a naturally low sex drive. But even if a husband or wife are wired for less-than-average interest in sex, does that give them the right to refuse sexual intimacy for months and months? God created our bodies to be able to give and receive sexual pleasure in a variety of ways. Sex is more than intercourse. Initially robust sex lift to zero.

Talked, begged,? Healthstress…. I am going through the same thing we have not had sex for 3 years. For the last 3 years when we moved in together it is non existent. I am ready to leave. I love him but i have no emotional support or no sex life. I appreciated your counsel. Where does this leave a person whose spouse refuses sex? They are now left with no resolve but masturbation, or for some ,turning elsewhere out of need? I am 71 years old, been married for 42 years and have had a basically sex less marriage for 30 years.

I love her with all my heart and desires her as much as ever but she refuses me. Being totally honest, I have turned to online porn. I will not go to another woman and Housewives wants hot sex Burden, on numerous occasions, turned down opportunities but I am a Christian and will not do that. It drives me crazy when I smell her, if you get my drift. What do I do now? I am a husband who basically refuses to have sex. I have been married almost 39 years and my wife is well into menopause. She complains now that we never have sex but yet never starts anything.

She wants everyone when we are in public to think that we have a great marriage hanging all over me but that quickly changes once we are alone. She is a complaining, sarcastic, controlling, gripping female who wants everything her way and she is always right about everything. We are both first children, both strong willed, both Christians.

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With her traits she has driven me away. I have prayed, sought advice from other ministers, counseled other men in the same situation so I have researched this subject what I think to be very well. Her mother and sister have the exact same traits. I have prayed for 35 years for God to change me every where I need changing, I have prayed for God to take away my need for sex.

All I ask is that you not be quick to condem those of us who refuse to have a sexual relationship with our spouse whether male or female. There can be and are other reasons as to why. I tried everything to get him interesting in me. I wore sexy nighties. I would beg I would plead with him, nothing. He made every excuse in the world to not have sex with me.

What is even more heartbreaking.

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He told me once that I was to big down there, in front of my family. So I asked my gynecologist if I was to big. I told him yes. He said no way are you that my husband must be really small. I know it may be to late to find someone who will love me and who wants to be with me. I also have a real body complex now. Hopefully I have the guts to leave. I still love him very much. I hope all went well for you. I am touched by your story. Hi Becky…I relate to everything you said.

I believe this is BS. Its been almost 7 years now. Many men have approached me so I know it is not me. He wanted a trophy wife because he is shallow. He also wanted one who made a lot of money He got both but as we age we change.

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He has made it clear that he does not want me so I have to accept that. It makes me so sad. I hope I have the guts to do what I need to do too. Man iam going thru the same stuff iam at the crossro i got to do something cant take this stuff no more its unbearable. He is thirty one years old. If and when we are intimate we wont do anything again for months and months at a time.

Last year, we probably had sex 3 times, 4 at most. Sometimes he does or says things that make me question his sexuality and since we are both Christian, this is hard for me to a wrap my head around. I would like to start a family someday and I would also like a husband that is able to satisfy me.

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